Pay attention to the base, material, relief and size.
Types of anal toys.
The wide range of anal toys can be divided into the following main categories.
butt plug
They are needed to stretch the anus before the dildo or penis can be inserted. But plugs can be used not only as a means to prepare for anal sex. These toys multiply the pleasure by themselves, exerting pressure on the erogenous zones and causing a pleasant feeling of fullness. Such "pressure" is the key to orgasm for many women.
anal beads.
Anal beads are balls of different sizes on a flexible connection. They are arranged in size from small to large, allowing for a gradual stretching of the anus when entered. For this reason, the toy is perfect for beginners.
After insertion, the balls are pulled out of the anus, thereby massaging sensitive areas. This can be done at different speeds — depending on your preferences and the desired effect. The balls are played both during foreplay and masturbation, and directly during sex to achieve a brighter orgasm.
Anal dildo.
Although almost any dildo with an extended base is suitable for anal sex, it is better to use a special one.
Anal dildos tend to be fancier than regular dildos. They are often topped by a conical glans that facilitates penetration. Many anal toys are given a slightly curved shape, for more effective stimulation of the prostate in men and the posterior vaginal wall in women.
Prostate massager.
They not only improve the sensations of orgasm, but also strengthen the prostate. And on his health, in turn, depends on the quality of sexual life. So having fun in this case is also extremely helpful.
Many prostate massagers are equipped with vibration. The most advanced models are controlled remotely, via a remote control or a Smartphone, while you can choose between several speed modes.
Anal vibrator.
Anal vibrators come in all tastes and colors. For example, with balls or in the form of a plug, which can be carried inside and turned on with the remote control if you suddenly want an emotion. There are also double vibrators for couples, so no one is offended.
How to choose an anal toy.
Beginners, uninitiated in the intricacies of anus games, should pay attention to the following recommendations.
Make sure your toy has an extended base.
Almost all anal toys have a dilated base. Restrictor serves as a guarantee that the object does not fall too deep into the anus and does not get stuck in the rectum, from where doctors will have to remove it.
Avoid porous materials.
It is optimal if the anal toys are made of smooth materials: silicone, borosilicate glass, stainless steel or even stone. The porous surface will gather a large collection of bacteria, which are rich in the anus, and it will be impossible to clean them.
Don't go overboard with the size.
The toys differ in length and diameter, and are often produced in sets of three pieces of different gauges, which is extremely convenient. It is better to start with a smaller size, up to 3 cm in diameter, and over time you can progress to something larger.
Pay attention to the relief.
The different nubs are relevant for people who have already had anal sex. To get started, take a closer look at models with a perfectly smooth surface. If the sphincter has not yet developed, any excess can cause pain.
Start with an anal plug.
If anal sex is new to you, start with a small plug. It is easy to insert it into the still narrow anus. Pay attention to models with a pump - you can independently adjust the size of the toy, gradually stretching the anus.
A little comfortable-connect the vibration.
Those who are already at least a little in the subject can move on to vibrating toys. They perfectly warm up the erogenous zones and help to prepare the anus for the introduction of the penis. They can be used both before and during sex. But it is better to turn on the vibration when the toy is already inside, otherwise it will be difficult to get into the gizmo. Therefore, it is much more convenient if the device is controlled remotely.
Consider the gender.
Most anal toys, with the exception of the prostate massager, are universal and suitable for both men and women. But it is worth considering that smooth anal plugs of the classic conical shape do not touch the sensitive prostate gland, which deprives the male half of a very large share of pleasure. Therefore, guys are recommended to choose a toy with a curvature.
What to do next.
Stock up on lubricant
For unhindered penetration, oil-based lubricant is especially good. But remember that it cannot be used with a condom - fatty components destroy latex. Water-based lubricants provide excellent slip and contain minimal chemicals, but dry quickly. Silicone products are more economical to wear, but they are more expensive and leave stains.
For beginners it is better to use special lubricants for anal sex: they do not dry out longer and contain relaxing substances.
Regardless of what you choose, you will need a lot of lubricant, because neither the anus nor the toys do not allocate lubricant.
Take care of hygiene.
Rinse the anus with a rectal douche before starting the experiments or with a small enema that you can buy at a sex shop. The volume should not exceed 400 ml, and the most common option, which suits almost everyone, is about 200 ml.
And more: never use the same dildos for anal and vaginal sex. The anus and vagina represent two separate ecosystems, and it is important that they do not exchange bacteria.
Don't rush events.
Begin to introduce the toy slowly and gently, stopping at the slightest sign of discomfort and pain.